The first principle of Intuitive Eating is "reject the diet mentality." It's first because if we can't identify all of the diet thoughts and food rules we will never be able to truly tune into our bodies' signals.
The diet mentality or "dieting mind" comes out of diet culture. Diet culture is all around us. We literally swim around in diet culture all day everyday, and we don't even know it!
There are so many aspects to diet culture that I find it difficult to explain them all here - but here is my take: let me start by saying that diet culture is harmful. There is no denying this. It encourages body dissatisfaction, increases risk and incidence of disordered eating and eating disorders and, keeps the multi billion dollar diet industry in business simply by telling us that we should hate ourselves.
Diet culture values weight and body shape (aesthetics) over actual health and well-being. Diet culture makes you believe that if you just "do it right," all will be right with you and the world. If you could just maintain your self-control and suppress your weight to societys' acceptable standard you will have health, happiness, wealth - generally everything wrong with your life will magically change and be perfect.
This is why it's so intoxicating - it's sold by people who fit "the beauty ideal," and makes us believe that we too can fit that same ideal if we just do what they do. This is like saying if we just train like LeBron, we'll magically play like LeBron.
This list is by no means complete, but if you can identify any of these thoughts or behaviors, it's very likely that you have some aspects of the diet mentality (of course you do - it's nearly impossible not to in our society). The key is to identify and dismantle these thoughts.
Reject the diet mentality to create a strong foundation for your intuitive eating practice . You must identify the dieting mind in order to be able to tune back in and finally be a .....
Next time in Intuitive Eating 101: principle 2 "honor your hunger."